Do you surround yourself with people who scare you or are you surrounding yourself with people who buy your smallness? A year ago, I was at a business class with about 20 high level entrepreneurs who had a revenue earning of a million dollars or more and I leaned over to the gentleman who was sitting next to me and said something so dumb. I told him a story about how women could not do or say a particular subject. Thinking about it now...it was a limiting story that I tried to get him to align and agree with. He didn’t buy my smallness and ignored what I had to say. It was such a learning lesson for me. I so got it. He was not going to buy my lies about what women can do or not do. That was my story. Not his. From this situation, I learned so much about the stories I was telling. I now catch myself much more often when I’m speaking and thinking stories that do not create more for my life. XO, Joanna
Do you surround yourself with people who scare you or are you surrounding yourself with people who buy your smallness?
A year ago, I was at a business class with about 20 high level entrepreneurs who had a revenue earning of a million dollars or more and I leaned over to the gentleman who was sitting next to me and said something so dumb. I told him a story about how women could not do or say a particular subject.
Thinking about it now...it was a limiting story that I tried to get him to align and agree with. He didn’t buy my smallness and ignored what I had to say. It was such a learning lesson for me. I so got it. He was not going to buy my lies about what women can do or not do. That was my story. Not his.
From this situation, I learned so much about the stories I was telling. I now catch myself much more often when I’m speaking and thinking stories that do not create more for my life.
In this episode, I give you ways and tips on how to up level your close circle of influence.
Here are 3 awarenesses you can have when it comes to choosing high vibrating friends and mentors:
1. The Proximity Principle: Surround yourself with high level individuals.
2. Intentionally make friends who scare you and level you up.
3. Notice if you want to run.
In this episode you will learn about:
● How I took a good lesson from a business class I attended a year ago and got how small I was thinking.
● Ways you can intentionally make new high level friends.
● How the wanting to run can lead to staying small and stopping your growth.
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I appreciate you and remember gals. . . to get back up. You got this!
XO,
Joanna
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